*This post contains images of self-harm, which may trigger people.*
Triggers are something that I hear a lot about, both on and off the internet. Therapists will ask if we know what triggers our depression or anxiety, we will then be told to look at identifying our triggers so we can look at coping with them. Is this sounding familiar? Theoretically, if you can identify a trigger, you can start employing your coping mechanisms to ensure that you get through whatever situation it is that might set you off.
Recently on Twitter, I advertised our Understanding Self-Harm page to promote awareness for self-harm. It contained the image below:
What do you think? Do you think the image is particularly triggering? Or is it more that the image is a bit shocking and uncomfortable to look at? Here are some of the responses I’ve had to it:
Not showing a great understanding with your choice of accompanying image. No need to show scars as this is just sensationalist and can trigger. I’ve tweeted you about this before.
— Carrie (@IamCarrieagain) January 6, 2018
If it were me, I wouldn’t ever use a photo of self harm. Esp as this photo just pops up when you’re scrolling on twitter. It can be triggering for many people. People self harm in different ways, and to different degrees of damage, and photos like this can lead to comparison.
— anna (@koalaalltheway) January 7, 2018
A *TW* and couple of carriage returns please.
If you want to understand self harm perhaps a basic understanding that pictures like trigger the sh*t out of people #TwitterEtiquette
— Miss Messed Up (@Miss_Messed_Up) January 6, 2018
A difficult subject but one which affects too many and in particular those who feel alone or isolated. Sharing to raise awareness & support. Good advice if you follow the link. If you are at risk and need urgent help please contact your local emergency services. #joinin247 https://t.co/4pm713U6K2
— Brian Tancock (@BrianJTancock) January 7, 2018
Do you agree with these? What do you think?
First off, I feel I need to say that I do believe in mental health triggers. Honestly, I do. There are things I know that can set me off on a depressive spiral or a panic attack, no matter what I try to do. Admittedly, I’m not very good at identifying those triggers, nor am I particularly good at avoiding them or dealing with them, but I know they are there.
My question, however, is this: at what point do triggers hamper mental health progress?
One thing that society teaches us on a regular basis is to keep our mental health struggles hidden. Have depression? Smile. Have anxiety? Breathe. We are taught, very much like Elsa in Frozen (yes, I have a 3-year-old who loves Frozen) to keep it in: don’t let them in, don’t let them see, be the good girl you always have to be. If we avoid talking about subjects containing potential triggers or avoid using images like the one above because they “may trigger someone”, how are we doing ourselves any good? I’ve been told the image above has shocked people into reading the content because they find it disturbing enough that they want to know more. Would you not say that’s a good thing?
It’s raised awareness for self-harm. It’s raised mental health awareness. Someone else has walked away with an understanding of a struggle that plagues a lot of us.
I’d say that’s a good thing.
Two comments – one of which has since been removed because the user decided to block me – went along these lines:
Do you know anything about Self harm Alex? The picture must be taken down immediately!
— Catherine Handley (@crosehandley) January 7, 2018
I feel, at this point, I need to direct people to reading my journey, particularly posts like Pills and Blades, that discuss my own personal struggle with self-harm. I have loads of scars covering my legs, even now after I’ve been “clean” for a few months. It’s something that I’ve battled with relentlessly. Below are just a couple of instances of when that happened.
Don’t get me wrong, I’m not sharing these lightly. I’ve made sure that my scars are hidden so that people won’t see them and start judging me or commenting, etc. Sharing them with you all is something I’m doing to continue raising that awareness and take the first step in my stand.
I believe that this subject needs to be talked about. I believe people need to see these images so that they might understand just how serious mental health is. Outside, in public, we put on smiles, we fake feeling as though we’re part of the community and we try and appear normal. Behind closed doors, however, we end up turning to coping mechanisms like the one in the pictures above. It’s something that’s not talked about, something that we avoid showing others, but we do it.
And people need to realise this.
People need to see the damage we do.
Shying away from it is not going to work anymore.
We need to be more vocal about this!
Realistically, what can I do regarding the images that will potentially trigger others? It’s like being caught between a rock and a hard place. On one hand you have the people who need to see the image, who need to be shocked into reading and become aware. On the other hand, you have all those who would claim to be triggered by the image (whether that’s genuinely triggered or, as so many people will do, jumping on the bandwagon to have a moan). In the middle, you have me and the people like me who are all trying to raise the awareness.
As far as triggers go, though, it’s a minefield. Everyone is different, everyone has different triggers. Asking anyone to find something that won’t trigger anybody is virtually impossible. So why should we hide what we feel, why should we avoid any potentially triggering images when there is no image that exists that might not trigger someone?
We need to stand up. We need to take ownership. This is real, this is happening. People struggle with this on a daily basis. To make a change, we need to shock people and we need to make them uncomfortable, because people will never change if they are comfortable.
Ultimately, I’m not going to apologise for these images. People need to see this. Realistically, the minefield is such that I won’t be able to find images that won’t offend someone, somewhere, so I will use the images I feel best fit what I’m trying to accomplish. What I will say is that understanding of self-harm needs to be raised. We need to do this. We need to take that stand. So stand with me. Help me fight this stigma.
I hope you understand.
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